What can parents and guardians do?
The below information touches on some strategies to help combat the risk of child sexual offending.
There are a number of non-profit organisations that provide in-depth resources and courses on this topic to assist parents, guardians, carers, workers in child safe organisations and concerned members of the public. To find out more visit the Useful resources page of this website.
1. Create a Safe Environment for Conversation
Children are more likely to speak up if they know they’ll be believed and supported. Start early and make discussions about safety part of everyday life — just like talking about crossing the road or wearing a seatbelt.
- Use simple, age-appropriate language.
- Encourage questions and reassure your child that it’s always okay to talk about things that make them feel uncomfortable.
- Let them know they can come to you (or another trusted adult) about anything, no matter how small.
2. Teach Body Safety and Personal Boundaries
Help your child understand that their body belongs to them.
- Teach the correct names for body parts — this builds confidence and clarity.
- Explain that certain parts are private, and no one has the right to touch or look at them without permission.
- Encourage your child to say "no" if something feels wrong or uncomfortable, even to someone they know.
3. Recognise the Warning Signs
Changes in behaviour, mood, or relationships may signal that something is wrong. Look out for:
- Withdrawal, anxiety, or sudden fear of certain people or places.
- Changes in sleeping or eating habits.
- Unexplained gifts, money, or secretive online activity.
If you’re concerned, trust your instincts and seek professional advice or report it.
4. Be Aware of Online Safety
Children and young people spend significant time online, and abusers often use digital platforms to groom or exploit them.
- Keep open conversations about internet use and privacy.
- Encourage your child to tell you if someone online makes them feel uncomfortable.
- Teach them not to share personal information, images, or videos.
5. Build a Network of Trusted Adults
Help your child identify a few trusted adults — both inside and outside the family — they can turn to if they ever feel unsafe. Encourage them to talk to at least one person until they feel heard and supported.